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Does Your Caregiver Pick On You?
My spouse is my caregiver. There are days when he’s just great and other days he’s verbally nasty. I know I take a lot of care: helping with dressing and undressing, cooking and cleaning. We have a weekly house cleaner. Both of us go to the gym–him to exercise room and me to the therapy pool for my exercising kicking and walking for an hour. He again, has to help get me in my suit and back out of it. Then dress, etc. UGH! I have a shoulder which needs replacing, but being on O2, the anathesiologist wont. So I cant use my dominate arm much. We don’t have long term health insurance to cover help and we just dont have an additional $30,000 to pay for one. I found a friend who let me hire her for a few hours to straighten all my messes every Wednesday. She cooks with my hubby and they make dinner for 2 nights. I am a sues check and chop/slice. We have gas and hubby wont let us change to an electric stove so I could help cook without blowing up the kitchen with my O2. The virus keeps me home a lot more than normal—I went out with friends for lunch, shopping and movies several days a week. Now I have 2 friends come in for bridge on Tuesdays, my helper every other Wednesday and the other Wednesdays just for dinner, I go off for lunch with friends every other Thursday and we go off with a Friend on every other Friday. This new schedule should keep him from picking on me. But, do others have problems like mine?
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