• Sharing an Update With Y’all, My PHamily

    Posted by jen-cueva on October 8, 2021 at 3:34 pm

    As some of you know, my hubby, Manny, and I have been thinking about relocating. We had no idea that this was about to happen so quickly.

    Because I think of y’all as more than forum members, you are my PHamily and close friends. We share our ups and downs often in this forum.

    So, my hubby, Manny, has an amazing opportunity in San Diego for an exciting career change. Plus, I know that my breathing will be much better there, so the overall quality of life, as y’all know, is a priority.

    Another bonus is that our kiddos are there, too. I started at UCSD, so I know that I will have no issues locating a PH team.

    We are waiting to hear about the closing of our home here bit have secured a lower unit condo with an attached garage for my parking.

    This should be within the next few weeks. If you notice that I am MIA during that time, it will be during travel times.

    I wanted to let y’all know as you are important to me. I love and care about y’all, and as I said, y’all are PHamily.

    Now, getting all ready to go is the toughest for me. I have been making several appointments per week, working a little, and rest, too. I know I need to be strong through this process.

    Any tips from y’all who may have moved while dealing with PH? I do plan to write about this once I get settles. I hope to add portions that y’all share (if you offer that permission) when I get to that).

    So, let’s talk about this? Have you made a move while managing PH and other health concerns?

    jen-cueva replied 2 years, 3 months ago 11 Members · 51 Replies
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  • susi-steppins

    Member
    October 9, 2021 at 10:38 am

    Oh my @jenc !

    What an exciting time for you!

    If there is anything that I know to be true is that the only thing constant is change.

    Change is good.

    Change is exciting.

    I am a bit envious.

    The only tips i can give you for the move is something you already know.

    Rest whenever you can and don’t beat yourself up for not being able to get in there and help like you once could.

    How exciting for Manny too!

    Love San Diego.

    Grew up in California.

    Just enjoy the experience and before you know it you will be sitting back with a cool drink looking at the Pacific Ocean.

    Will be looking forward to reading about your adventures along the way.

    • jen-cueva

      Member
      October 11, 2021 at 12:43 pm

      Hi, @s-steppins, where in California are you from?

      I am super excited as we started as newlyweds in San Diego. Plus, the kiddos are there.

      I am trying not to overdo while packing and preparing things, but
      you know how that goes, LOL.

      Yes, soon, I will have my toes in the sand and a nice drink looking at the Pacific ocean. I can’t wait. Thanks for your support.

      • susi-steppins

        Member
        October 11, 2021 at 6:35 pm

        @jenc, I grew up in Hacienda Heights. Brad and I met in high school there my freshman year. My kids did most of their growing up in Rancho Cucamonga. My son lived in San Diego for about 8 years. He worked at a restaurant in LA Jolla called Azul.

        Looking forward to hearing about your adventures along the way.

      • jen-cueva

        Member
        October 12, 2021 at 10:31 am

        Cool, @s-steppins. Manny and I also meet in his school. We both graduated from the high desert in Victorville. When he went to basic training in SD and the, we were married. We started as newlyweds when he was stationed in Coronado.

        So, we are looking forward to being back where we started. That and now the kiddos are there, so a huge bonus.

        I love La Jolla, too. So many areas in CA that we both love.

        Thanks for sharing your story. Where are your favorite locations in CA?

    • john-huebner

      Member
      October 26, 2021 at 2:43 pm

      Jen!  Welcome to San Diego!

      I’ll be moving there in ten days, from Park City, Utah.  Finally realized that trying to breathe at high altitudes (my home is at 6,700 ft. elevation)

      uses up all of my daily energy, leaving little for actual living.

      Here’s to breathing!  Here’s to oxygen!

      John Huebner

      • jen-cueva

        Member
        December 1, 2021 at 2:51 pm

        Hi @johnjhuebnergmail-com, did you get moved and settle in a bit in San Diego? I’ve been meaning to check in on you and keep forgetting.

        Let us know how you are doing after the move once you are feeling up to it.

  • roger-bliss

    Member
    October 9, 2021 at 9:43 pm

    Congrats on the move to be near your family and a career change. I am sure it will work out well for you guys!!!

    Your gonna have to let me know who your PH team is at UCSD as I will need one this winter. My oncologist can set me up, but still want to know who works for you. UCSD is a GREAT place.

    Can’t begun to tell you how to move with PH. I can tell you if you stay in a place too long like me, I acquire too much”stuff”. Maybe its more “crap” than stuff??? Been at our place for 40 years. I keep putting up sheds/buildings as we get more crap. We move between AK and AZ being snowbirds. Got too much “stuff” in AZ too. Share a 10X20 storage unit in AZ with a friend……my side is full. Got 4 sheds and a 30′ X 40 shop here in AK. There is always enough room in the shop to park my dump truck, but the sheds are full.

    My advise would be get rid of as much stuff as you can…….yeah I know easier said than done.

    • jen-cueva

      Member
      October 11, 2021 at 12:50 pm

      Hi, @wheeldog; my PH doc will be Dr. Poch at UCSD. I believe they have 3-4 other PH docs in that office which I have heard are excellent. I also know the PH know there, Sandee, who is so kind and knowledgeable. Let me know if you need their contact information.

      Thanks for the support. Manny is excited about the change, but he will also learn some new things. He is particularly excited to work on the fire trucks once he gets his certifications for that. The company will send him to the firetruck mechanic class. He will manage some and been on the floor, too. He likes to do both as sitting still, like you, is not his forte.

      Yes, all the accumulated “junk” in the garage and the house, too, is something I wish we had gone through sooner. But things are moving along. I think his biggest concern is his tools, LOL.

      Are y’all heading to AZ soon?

      • roger-bliss

        Member
        October 11, 2021 at 11:52 pm

        I had a friend I used to ride motorcycles with. He was a mechanic at Anchorage FD. He loved his job. They gave him a mechanics truck to use as he would do work at different fire stations. The truck had lights and sirens that all the other emergency vehicles  do. He could only use his lights/siren if he was headed to an emergency where something broke down during a fire, so didn’t get to use them too often.

        Thanks for the PH doctor information. I’ll mention their names when I talk to my oncologist and see if can get me an appointment.

        The goal is to drive down the first week in November. We’ll see how fast we can get things lined up to leave. Hopefully the rules for driving through Canada won’t change before we leave.

      • jen-cueva

        Member
        October 12, 2021 at 12:28 pm

        That is so cool, @wheeldog. I know Manny is like a kid thinking about that part of the job, LOL.

        Here’s the link to the PH center at UCSD with all doctors who work with PH.

        Maybe we can meet up when you are in SD for appointments and have a beer. Let me know, and I will see what we can do to make this happen.

        It sounds like you are probably keeping busy. You are like us and need to get ready to hit the road soon. I do hope that the border is not too difficult to get across when you come through.

        Let us know if you would like to share a little about your PH journey in the 30 days of the PH initiative. We have so few stories by men who can share for other men to relate. Writing about PH as a man who works hard and runs a company would be an excellent story. See the 30 days of PH post by Colleen for more information.

      • roger-bliss

        Member
        October 12, 2021 at 11:58 pm

        Thanks for the link. I’ll get with my oncologist and see what he says. Think he can get me in with them??? If not I will contact them.

        Would be cool to meet up for a beer (gluten free for me).LOL Would like to meet you and Manny.  We usually take our pickup/camper and stay at the Golden Acorn Casino 0n I 8 then drive into SD the next morning. We  spend most of the day there and usually get done around 5 or 6. They also have rooms/apartments for rent there (UCSD). Might be able to get to stay in them if I have extended tests. Guess we’ll have to play it by ear. This winter will be easy. In the past my wife was flying in and out of Phoenix every 2 weeks for her shift on the slope. Now that she is retired, we are only limited by my once a month lung drain. Hopefully, they will solve that problem……then we’ll be good to go for extended trips.

        Right now I am fairly busy. Might be able to write an article on the 30 days of PH once we get settled in AZ.

        I just take our pickup camper and pull an 18′ trailer to AZ. Don’t have to take all our crap with us (thank God). You guys are not so lucky with your move.

        I feel sorry for our friends in Canada. They can’t drive across the US border. Several are getting old and can’t get or it is too expensive to get health insurance to travel south anyway. One of our friends who is younger is hiring a “professional driver” to drive his motor home and trailer across the border for them and they are flying. Guess it’s real expensive to do that. If they close the border for us we can put our rig on a barge headed south and fly down. The barges are full headed north, but are basically empty going back south. The prices for freight headed south are pretty reasonable. Might just barge our stuff anyway if the weather is bad???

      • jen-cueva

        Member
        October 13, 2021 at 8:52 am

        Hey @wheeldog, if you want to call the PH office and get an appointment yourself, I can message you the sweet lady, Elizabeth’s information. She books appointments. I have her direct number. LMK and I are happy to send it here in a private message.

        I can understand that you are busy. But this article is more like writing here, lol.
        It is only 300-350 words and a pic of your choice if you include one. I like the stories that have pics, so others connect the stories to real PHolks, LOL

        We certainly can meet up for a beer, lunch, or whatever you are up to on one of your visits to UCSD.

        I certainly hope and pray that they can get this extra fluid on your lungs controlled or resolved if they can.

        Wow, that sounds like so much to get across the border. I can see how some grow tired and frustrated trying to get across. Unlike you, the man with a plan, always, they need a bit of practice of Roger tips, hehe.

      • roger-bliss

        Member
        October 13, 2021 at 9:20 pm

        PM me on the PH dept and I’ll get with them. My oncologist has all my records. I need to get with him too to see what will work best.

        I emailed Coleen for more information on the 30 day thing. I’ll see what I can do.

        Once they get this fluid stopped, I am good to go. Then I can cool it with the doctors appointments and let someone else make payments on their luxury cars.;-)

      • jen-cueva

        Member
        October 14, 2021 at 5:10 pm

        Certainly, @wheeldog, I will PM you the information to contact Elizabeth to schedule an appointment.

        I am excited that you will share your story in the 30 Days of H this year.

        You are too funny, yes, the luxury cars and their elegant lunches are what I always joke with my doctors about.

        I know that you will be happy to get that extra fluid controlled. Please do keep us posted on how that goes.

        How’s the prep to leave going your way?

  • sally-hoffman

    Member
    October 11, 2021 at 8:40 am

    Congratulations to you and Manny!!!  So exciting.  It’s great to be able to share news that is good all around!  I am a bit envious about being near the kids.  Since 1985 the closest I have lived to  my children was an 8 hour car ride.  I lived with my children in NY.  When they scattered so did I.  I’ve lived in Maine and Florida and my kids live in New York, California and Italy!

    Set small goals for each day and rest often.  More often than you think you need.

    Be careful and stay safe.  Best of luck in this exciting new move.

  • jen-cueva

    Member
    October 11, 2021 at 12:56 pm

    Hi @mainegal, wow, Italy, huh? I did not know that you had kids in Italy.

    Yes, I am so excited and fortunate to be near them. This moma is not loving being away from her baby girl. In college, she was 4 hours away then moved here locally. So, I was spoiled seeing her often. Being an only child, I know that o=it may happen again, that I am not near her. But I will enjoy the time there in San Diego once we get there with them.

    They will be about 20 minutes away.

    Yes, I am trying to set small goals, but you know my task list grows each day, LOL.

    Manny has been good at trying to take care of most that he can. But then I worry that I am not aware of all going on, LOL.

    Thanks again for your support. I hope that you are doing well this week.

  • cathy-brown

    Member
    October 12, 2021 at 2:55 pm

    Congratulations, this sounds like a great move! I don’t have any tips but would love to hear what works for you as we are moving in December from upstate NY to Phoenix.

    • jen-cueva

      Member
      October 13, 2021 at 8:34 am

      Hi @catbrown, as you know, preparing to move involves a lot of extra work. At least you have more time. This all happened so quickly that I don’t think I will grasp it until we leave.

      But, most of our house is packed. I am packing my kitchen things at the end of this week.

      As you already know, asking for help (I am guilty of not doing this) and taking it slow, or tackling small tasks and rest.

      I do plan to write a column about this once we get there and settled in a bit. Stay tuned.

      Speaking of writing, IDK if you saw @colleensteele’s post about 30 days of PH but thought that you could write about your travels and being on oxygen. What went right and not so right for you? How about that? If so, please check out the topic for this, and she explains a bit more. It is a concise bit of your story but will help you offer your experiences to others in the PH community. I think that you would do an excellent job. If not this topic, maybe your temp single-parenting a teen with PH.

      How did your visit with your sister go? I know you must have enjoyed that.

  • randolph-reynolds

    Member
    October 12, 2021 at 4:20 pm

    Jen

    Downsizing is an ornery business but adding a cross-country move along with it is daunting.  When we downsized we just moved across town and our daughter helped us.  That was before I was on supplemental O2.  I applaud your positive attitude about it.

    Our son graduated from UCSD (Roosevelt College) some twenty-five years ago.

    The area around La Jolla is lovely.  Can you abide by the way of life in California? Your husband’s new job must be very attractive to draw you to that area.  You realize you are going against the flow.  One of our neighbors is moving from San Diego in December.   Fortunately they bought their place four years ago.  Housing prices in Prescott are skyrocketing.

    San Diego and UCSD are the center of PH care but I suspect you know that.  It should make life easier for you.  I wish you all the best.

    • jen-cueva

      Member
      October 13, 2021 at 8:41 am

      Hi @ripple76, thank you for your kind words and support.

      Interesting, as I keep hearing that people are moving out of California. Well, the San Diego area does not show that. I thought that we would never secure a place that would work for us. They have open houses for rentals, and receiving anywhere from 20-200 applicants for one place is what we experienced. The broker that we worked with on this condo confirmed this.

      It will be a huge change, but the weather, improved breathing, the kiddos, and quality of life make it all worth it in my book.

      As I mentioned, Manny and I started as newlyweds there in the Navy and stationed in Coronado. We will be about 20 minutes from La Jolla. I have always loved La Jolla, too.

      But yes, this downsizing and moving is a huge chore. The kiddos are there to help once we arrive. We do have people who will load here and unload there, too.

      I must say, Manny has tried to keep me resting and not overdoing it. Although, that doesn’t always happen, LOL

      I am grateful to see you posting and appreciate your support. Stay tuned.

      I hope your breathing is a bit better and maybe some cooler air there in AZ for you. Is it?

    • Colleen

      Member
      October 14, 2021 at 7:27 pm

      @ripple76 I hope I don’t jinx you by pointing this out, but I am so happy to see you finally posting without issue! What you share is always kind and helpful and when you need support, we want you to be able to ask for it.

      On that note, how are you doing?

  • v-r-peterson

    Member
    October 13, 2021 at 6:07 am

    Congratulations on your move! When my son went to UCSD for his PTE surgery, he noticed that it was easier for him to breathe. I pray that you experience the same.

    • jen-cueva

      Member
      October 13, 2021 at 8:44 am

      Hey there @mamabear007, how are you doing? Have you been hibernating? I have missed seeing your posts.

      Yes, I expect to see some improvements in my breathing, as you mention your son experienced. How are he and his wife doing?

      Overall, the opportunity came up, and I believe that God opens doors for a reason. I am going with it. Thanks as always for your love, prayers, and support.

      • v-r-peterson

        Member
        October 13, 2021 at 9:18 am

        I haven’t been posting much, and I’m no longer on Facebook, so you won’t see me there.

        My son and his wife are doing well.

      • Colleen

        Member
        October 14, 2021 at 7:22 pm

        @mamabear007 as long as we will still see you here once in a while. We would miss you terribly if you left us.

      • v-r-peterson

        Member
        October 15, 2021 at 11:41 am

        Thank you, @colleensteele. I will be here for quite awhile, as I really love this place.????

      • jen-cueva

        Member
        October 18, 2021 at 8:25 am

        Good morning, @mamabear007. I was so ha[py to read that you DO plan to stick around here and that you love this forum. We love you, too. I agree with Colleen; we would miss you greatly.

        Cheers to a new week.

      • v-r-peterson

        Member
        October 18, 2021 at 8:58 am

        @jenc, I’m praying for you and Manny, that your move goes well. To easier breathing!

      • jen-cueva

        Member
        October 19, 2021 at 9:20 am

        Thank you, @mamabear007, for your kind words and support. To better breathing is one of the major pros, as you know. I will keep y’all posted.

        This week and next, I may not be on as often but will pop in as I can. Have a great rest of your week. Is it cold there already?

      • v-r-peterson

        Member
        October 19, 2021 at 9:40 am

        @jenc,

        Oh yes, we’re cold here! We had our first snow of the season last week, and the temps have been as low as 28 F. This morning, we’re coming in at a balmy 37 F.

      • jen-cueva

        Member
        October 19, 2021 at 9:50 am

        Wow, snow already, @mamabear007? We had a coldfront come through, and this morning was 57 degrees, lol.

        But as you know, in San Diego, the mornings and evenings are pretty balmy. I do have extra hoodies and sweaters that I never get to wear here in Texas, hehe.

      • v-r-peterson

        Member
        October 19, 2021 at 10:25 am

        @jenc, the snow was only a skiff and has melted. I don’t expect that we’ll get a snow heavy enough to stick until next month. At least I hope not. ????????

      • jen-cueva

        Member
        October 20, 2021 at 7:10 pm

        Hi @mamabear007,
        Hopefully, the snow that sticks holds off a. Bit for you.

        Have you started back your walking yet?

        Hi @ripple76, waving as we are passing through Arizona.This is one long drive. I hope that you’re having some cooler days and better breathing, buddy.

      • v-r-peterson

        Member
        October 21, 2021 at 8:35 am

        Thanks, @jenc. No, I haven’t started walking again. I’ve been a baaaaad girl. ????

  • jen-cueva

    Member
    October 14, 2021 at 5:03 pm

    Oh, that’s why I have been missing you even more. I do hope that you will continue to be a part of our forums, @mamabear007. You have such excellent tips and support for me and the others.

    I am happy to hear that your son and DIL are doing well. Staying busy, I bet as mine do, LOL.

    • v-r-peterson

      Member
      October 14, 2021 at 5:32 pm

      Thank you, @jenc. I do plan on sticking around for quite awhile. ????

  • jimi-mcintosh

    Member
    October 20, 2021 at 7:41 pm

    Take me with you, the ocean and the breezes with help you to breathe.   When do we start to call you -“The Gone Girl”. Lol

    • jen-cueva

      Member
      October 24, 2021 at 10:49 pm

      Hey y’all, I wanted to let you know that we arrived safely in San Diego. I am loving it already but exhausted. I still have lots of unpacking to do. But my hubby, Manny, and I will be home next week; we will keep more unpacked. The kiddos already helped one day and will be back this coming week.

      @jimi, you make me laugh. I am thinking of you all. Yes, the air is so much better for my breathing. I am looking forward to what I can do as I am here longer.

      No worries, I would miss you all too much if I were MIA too long. Last week a few days of traveling and not much internet service, I missed my forum PHamily. I am on “vacation,” aka unpacking, next week but will be popping by. I hope that you all are doing well and having some “good” days.
      – love and hugs from sunny SoCal

      • Colleen

        Member
        October 26, 2021 at 1:33 pm

        @jenc finally we are living in the same time zone! I know this has been a lot of work for both you and Manny but also really exciting too. Just think, you will be all settled in for the upcoming holiday season! God bless the both of you and this happy new beginning!

      • jen-cueva

        Member
        November 1, 2021 at 2:37 pm

        Thanks, @colleensteele; I do feel closer to you. Plus, when we text and message, I don’t have to worry what time it is at your house, hehe.

        Hopefully, this week finds you feeling much better.

        Thanks for the well wishes. Almost all boxes are unpacked. Downsizing is a ton of work, but it is also freeing in some ways, LOL.

      • roger-bliss

        Member
        October 28, 2021 at 12:33 am

        Glad to hear you guys are safe and sound in SD.

        I talked to Elizabeth, a very nice person, she needed a referral from someone for me to go there. My oncologist referred my to a   Pulmonary place. It is located at 200 West Arbor in Hillcrest. It’s part of UCSD.  Do you know anything about that place??? My appointment is for Nov 23rd. I have an appointment with my oncologist Dec 2nd in La Jollia.

        Right now my life is a zoo. Work will be done for the season Friday the 29th. Been working long hours. Been working the last 5 days hauling gravel for a hanger at a local airport.  Everyone is freaking out trying to get things done (stuff they should have got done last summer). We are also packing for AZ. We plan on driving down next week. Got a pickup camper pulling a 18 ft enclosed trailer. We want to cross the border to America before Nov 8th. That’s the date when they will let Canadians drive into the US for pleasure. The lines will be long crossing the US border on the 8th.

        Next Monday I get my DOT physical, Tuesday I get my lung drained. Gonna wait a couple days after they drain my lung to see if I have complications before we head south.

        Hopefully, we can meet up on one of our trips do SD.

      • Colleen

        Member
        October 29, 2021 at 2:16 pm

        Yikes, I feel tired just reading your update @wheeldog! I know it’s not easy, but try to find some down time to relax. I’m worried all this stress isn’t going to help your health.

        I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and checking for updates when you have the time to make them.

        As far as the “30 Days” project…focus on that later and only if you still want to participate. I have 2 weeks of stories completed so you have time to submit yours once you get settled in your winter home.

        Take care!

      • roger-bliss

        Member
        October 29, 2021 at 7:09 pm

        We finished the airport job yesterday. Got called for work on another job this morning, but turned it down. It snowed last night and the roads were bad this morning. So I am officially off for the winter. Got a list of stuff to do for the AZ trip. I am not that stressed out, but did sleep in this morning.;-)

        Check your email. I sent the story to you on the 27th. Let me know if for some reason you didn’t get it.

      • Colleen

        Member
        October 29, 2021 at 7:26 pm

        @wheeldog I checked my email and found your story. I’m sorry I missed it. For some reason I didn’t receive an alert when you sent it and it got lost among other emails.

        But I have it now and it is great! I appreciate that you took the time to write this when I know you have been busy.

        Good for you for turning down that last job. Sometimes it’s necessary to say no. Wishing you a safe trip to AZ.

        Do you happen to have one more picture you can send me? If not, don’t worry about it.

        Thanks again!

      • jen-cueva

        Member
        November 1, 2021 at 2:30 pm

        Wow, @wheeldog, it sounds like a crazy life, indeed. You have so much work and appointments mixed in with the packing for your trip to AZ.No time to rest, huh?

        I have heard of Hillcrest, but none of the PHriends I know in the area go there. There are multiple PH docs at La Jolla. Maybe you can ask your oncologist to refer you to the actual PH center instead.

        Thanks for your well wishes. Yes, hopefully, we can meet up on one of your SD trips.

        BTW, thanks for your 30 days of PH story. I am excited to read it.

        Have a safe trip to AZ, and please do keep us posted.

      • roger-bliss

        Member
        November 1, 2021 at 4:27 pm

        Guess it isn’t a PH place???? It’s called HCH Interventional Pulmonology. The guy that’s doing my Thoracentes is surgeon by the name of Dr George Cheng. Sounds like over kill for a simple procedure to me. However UCSD has always been good to deal with and I trust their judgment. Guess I will know more after I talk to them. Maybe the PH dept doesn’t drain lungs?? Think it’s more of a cancer thing than a PH thing.

         

      • Colleen

        Member
        November 2, 2021 at 12:22 pm

        @wheeldog that is a good question and I’m not sure of the answer. I’m going to start a post about PH and having lungs drained. I will tag you in it.

  • jill-upshaw

    Member
    October 26, 2021 at 2:18 pm

    Pack your bed last on the truck so it can be unloaded first and have them set it up when unloaded so you can do the sheets, etc early and not wait for hours getting more tired. Fill your medicine a month in advance if you can so that won’t get screwed up. Sign all papers and have all records transferred to your new doctor ahead of time and verify they have them. Make you a travel copy of your meds and record summary in case you get sick heaven forbid in transit. Then kick back, enjoy, have fun and let everyone else do the work……..Keep your meds and oxygen supplies with you and not the movers…….Rid yourself of all things you don’t need…….

    • jen-cueva

      Member
      November 1, 2021 at 2:35 pm

      Hi @upshtcx, those are all essential tips. I did most of those. Plus, our bed was one of the first things unloaded. That was nice as my daughter was here and helped me make my bed ready for bedtime.

      I did order a “boatload” of meds before I left. My local pharmacy in Texas asked what I was preparing for when my hubby picked them all up.

      That thing with my PH meds is they are ordered every month. I ordered mine a few days early last month, so I would not miss them in the mail.

      I also have my PH doc transferring all records before seeing the local PH doc here early next year.

      I hope that you are doing well. Anything new this week?

  • jen-cueva

    Member
    November 1, 2021 at 2:25 pm

    Thanks, @johnjhuebnergmail-com; I think that you will notice n improvement in your breathing here in SD, especially coming from that altitude. I already see improvements in my breathing.

    Are you planning to see the PH docs at UCSD? I hope that we can meet up one day in person.

    Have a safe trip here, and please let me know once you get settled and which area you are located in.

    • jill-upshaw

      Member
      November 1, 2021 at 3:09 pm

      Glad your daughter is close by. That is a huge help but just the security of having her close should be good for all of you.

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